Growing up as a closeted gay teenager in a small religious town in Mexico was quite hard. Not only was I bullied at school but also at home by my brother. I cried many tears over the fact that I was “different.” However, this never stopped me from being myself. Thankfully, I’ve come a long way since those painful high school years. Now I’m out of the closet to most of my family and friends, living in a foreign country, and working as a fabulous gay-lifestyle blogger.
You wonder why I’m telling you this? Very simple, for me (and maybe for you too): The only way to meet other gay guys around my area was the Internet. And gay, online dating nowadays is completely different from when I was just a scared chubby little gay boy.
As a horny teenager, most of my nights consisted of sneaking out of my bedroom, going to the studio, turning on the computer, logging on to El Chat or Latin Chat, and waiting for hours for someone close to home to come online; with the only hope to exchange pictures via e-mail to jerk off to. What a joke! Eventually I discovered gay dating sites, and the art of hooking up became much more accessible.
However, even with all the advances in online dating, some things remain the same. There’s always going to be the jack-ass using fake pictures, the guy who wants to meet but never shows up, the guy saying, “I don’t want to hook up” but here’s a pic of my asshole so you can take a close look. Dating in general is messy, complicated, exhausting yet fun.
And this fun factor is what makes me pull out my GuySpy App every five minutes and check if I have any new messages. I’m a naughty boy and I’m not ashamed of it. I enjoy the male physique, the body contact with other men, as well as a good conversation, a great night out, or just cuddling on the couch.
But I’m having a hard time hooking up and dating Texans. Most of them are conceited, like to play games, and act prudeish. BORING! We could have a freaking hot time if they would cut the crap. As a result, I keep messaging guys miles away, who are open-minded, sexually confident and sharp, just like today’s GuySpy Real Guy of the Week.
This 27-year-old sexy guy is what I need to have fun tonight. Here’s what I found out about him.
Guyspy Profile Name: SHEEN84
1. What do you like the most about GuySpy app? I love that the app is full of hot guys, has a great search, and never has any problems.
2. How would you describe your perfect guy? My perfect guy would be athletic, versatile, and of any ethnicity. Would also have to be down to earth and able to keep a conversation.
3. What’s the craziest place you ever had sex? Tell us about it. When an ex of mine came to visit me on the cruise ship I was working on. We went up at around midnight to – sounds corny but- see the stars. We sat right at the front of the top deck and well, one thing led to another and we were doing the real sex scene that should have been in Titanic. LOL.
4. What’s your dirty little secret? Don’t really have a dirty little secret, which sounds really boring, but I do have a massive liking of anything Lycra and have a dildo called Mr. Tom.
5. Who would you say is a good role model (straight or gay, female or male) for the gay community? Why? I love Ian McKellen. Not only is he a fantastic gay actor but seems to fight for everything good to make gay life more “normal” in the eyes of heterosexual people. He’s always involved in parades and campaigns, which I find extraordinary for such a big star of the screen.
See what I’m telling you? Handsome, fit, with a boyish charm…not afraid to admit he likes to stare at the outline cock of a guy wearing Lycra and definitely not ashamed of sharing with us the name of his dildo. By the way, you will no longer need it. From now on you can call my cock Mr. Tom. Wink! Wink!
If you think you have what it takes to be our next “Real Guy of the Week” e-mail me (email@example.com) with your username, location, and age. I will review all the submissions with the rest of the GuySpy team, and pick a candidate. The lucky winner gets to be featured on our blog, and wins a Gift Pack and 3 months free of GuySpy+. Don’t wait any longer to submit your profile. You could be next week’s Guy.
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