I get so many emails asking for advice about sex. Hmm, I don’t know why… perhaps it’s because of my moonlighting as a sexual illusionist, aka porn performer.
One of the most common sex questions I get is about rimming. Most guys either really love doing it or being on the receiving end of it, or both. However, like all sex acts, this does not always mean it’s a great experience.
The problem? Most guys simply get down there and start spinning their head like the Tasmanian Devil, or start chomping away like a shark in a feeding frenzy. I find that very un-pleasurable. Good rimming means using your tongue to create maximum sensation and pleasure. Lots of gentle licking around your partner’s hole, some tickling with the tip of your finger, lightly blowing on the hole while it’s a little wet, and every so often becoming a bit more aggressive.
This creates multiple sensations, and I have found the guys who perform these actions are the best rimmers. Even if you are the one doing the rimming this allows you to really appreciate your partner’s body in addition to providing him with pleasure. Remember, practice makes perfect. Happy rimming, guys!
Marc Dylan is a part-time porn performer, blogger, fitness enthusiast, and student of life. To find out more about Marc, visit marcdylan.xxx and follow him on Twitter. His new GuySpy blog will appear on a regular basis.