Meeting sexy guys can be hard. Besides having to swim between the straight or gay, single or taken, there’s also attitudes, shyness, and preconceived notions to deal with. By using GuySpy, you can bypass all the hit and miss crap and actually meet guys who are into you, whether you’re looking for a date, a relationship, or just a good time.
There are lots of things to keep in mind when making a profile and using GuySpy. Here are some tips to make the experience work in your favor.
Try some of these tips the next time you’re trying to get lucky, and see how fast you can go from striking out to a double hitter.
1. Lead with the photo. You can do so successfully with one of the two options: a sexy close-up of your face or a picture of your rocking bod (but include your face or the photo will end up being ‘too hot for mobile’ based on Apple’s rules- if you happen to use an iPhone). Don’t include a picture that has multiple people in it or is too blurry to actually make out. Don’t be deceptive: Your potential date won’t appreciate that.
The ability to have several photos in your online profile allows you to showcase who you are and what you like. It also allows you to really see who you’re chatting with beforehand.
2. Make your profile about YOU. At the very least, write something about who you are or what you’re looking for. This is your chance to show your personality a bit.
Don’t just jump into the nasty talk. Include something about yourself that demonstrates your personality and interests. It doesn’t need to be a novel introduction, just something quick that can set you apart from your competition.
3. Know your HIV status and list it.
Be upfront about your status when talking with guys. If there’s a good chance you’re going to have sex with this guy, it’s something he should probably be aware of. If you’re on the road to a relationship, even more so. Also read between the lines and understand the implications of what you read in other profiles.
Us gays love acronyms! Some you’re likely to come across:
DDF – Drug and disease free.
POZ – HIV positive/seropositive.
PNP – Party and play. This is code for a sex and drugs party, most usually Crystal Meth. They may include safe or unsafe (BB) sex, and multiple drugs usage. GuySpy in no ways advocates PNP or drug use.
BB – Bareback – This is not advocated by GuySpy.
4. Post your preference.
Bottom? Top? Versatile? Let the guys know what you’re in to so that you can get matched up with a good and sexy fit.
5. Use the search filters.
If you’re using our apps be sure to use all the different search filters. You can be specific about age, height, weight, role, distance away from you, and more. Why waste time chatting with guys you’ll never be able to meet?
6. Get to messaging.
Now that your profile has the necessary touches, get to looking and start messaging hot guys. However, while you both may be looking for the same thing, you will find the most success by making some cordial small chat first. Don’t just head straight for the sex pick-up. Exchange a few messages and then steer it towards sex by making some sort of funny pun. You may encounter some really direct and aggressive guys; if that happens to be your thing, respond accordingly – sometimes there’s no need to beat around the bush!
7. Figure out where.
Are you into hosting or would you rather travel? Know what you are comfortable with beforehand and stick to it. Don’t conform to their preference if you’re not comfortable. Be sure to let a friend know if you’re going to travel to your new GuySpy guy’s house.
8. Be prepared.
Don’t go into this kind of situation without the necessary protection or assume that your partner will have it. Stock up beforehand on condoms and travel-sized Adam & Eve lube, and bring it with you. A prepared hook-up is super sexy!
9. Trust your gut.
If you show up and they look like Jeffrey Dahmer, leave! But really, first gut feelings are usually spot on, so get out of the situation if you don’t feel safe. You’re not going to be able to enjoy yourself if you’re constantly having to wonder what their next move might be.
10. Be honest.
Was this a one night thing? Wanna make it a regular situation? Let your partner know. While it may seem like they were just looking for a good night too, they may have different feelings. Be considerate and let them know where you stand on hanging out again before you part ways. The nice thing is that you’re always a simple message away on GuySpy. If you really had a good time be sure to add him as a favorite.
Finally, familiarize yourself with the GuySpy User Agreement and always put your safety first. Happy Hunting!